ABOUT WOMEN

     There are so many thoughts that about what women want more than anything else in the world. This  question seems as if easy but I must tell to truth it is a bit complex probably it sometimes is more complex than we think. What is the reason of this complexity? Even though question as if easy, why don’t men answer this question without thinking or hesitation. Answer is coming up now, because women are complex because of their life, their style , their wishes, their point of view about the topics which occur in life and  the most powerful and effective effect is their unique, unimaginable properties of characters. When we go to deep, I am sure we will  find a resonable answer for all men and this gives more comfortable life to men because of having answer. They will know all sides of the topic and they behave as to it.

     I am saying that for all men imagine women who are so beautiful, wise, hardworking, well-kept, logical. Is this possible or real for nature  of human? Most of the answer are yes. This is possible. It is high possibility to having the features on women. Every woman is wise , well-kept, beautiful. Men have to accept this  reality. When we search  the answer,  ıt is a bit hard but it can be easy  going to deep by searching in every cell of women. Answer is hided here. Go cells of the women. Men answer this question in a basically way and they say the first thing in their mind. Women want money, clothes,beauty,fine jewellery and want to be able to several times. But some of men tell different more spiritual opinions and they saythat women want to achieve their goals, nice words , loyalty, and attention. We can admit these answers but it is limited explanation.Men need to think over it. Its answer is close but far, easy but complex, its answer is cheap but expensive. What is it? I will give some clues to find out answer of the question.  

      Nature of human originates from women.Women are in everywhere. In other saying everything is consisted of women, some people don’t agree that because they think basically not he all possibilities about it.When we look at the life of women, we can see that  women devote their life to jobs, their families, their husband and they forget themselves all the time. They focus on the the others things on their environment. They pay attention moral things and a lot questions are coming up. Though everything is basic in women life and they don’t want so much, what women want the most? I know that  questions and answers have been asked so many years and it will go the same way from now on. People say various ideas but nobody agree common edge as life of person is so different and essential from one another so simple answer of this simple question is that women want to be themselves not someone else.

     To sump up; women need to know their value, their uniquiness, their beauties and these are not hard. They know how they behave and what they do so don’t say anything about their character, they are free and they do aynything what hey want.This is so basic. The key point is here; do not go far away if you want to know women. Look their characters and let them to be themselves because beauty will leave one day but personality come to everywhere and everytime until women die.

               TWO MEN AND ONE WOMAN

      Firstly, I should say that loving is difficult. It gives so much happiness, sadness, pain, energy to someone who falls in love. It is so great and huge manner that everybody doesn’t struggle with it. Loving is devoted to yourself to someone who steals your heart. From past to present, almost all people to be with loving and lover. This is so usual situation but in the past it was a bit different from it’s today version. It was generally impossible in the past. When someone fell in love, it gave unimagianable pain to lovers. When we look our background, we can see that there are so many legends about lovers and loving. For example; Ferhat And Şirin, Kerem with Aslı, Romeo And Juliet so on. These are legends because one of them was loved much more but he or she did not find same reaction and the end of the legend they were not happy except some exceptions.

     Secondly, when we focus on the Arcite- Emily, Palamon- Emily, we see same situation unfortunately. While one of them was happy , the other person was sad. This is reality of life. This is tragic but true. Their loving started in a prison. They were cousen and punished because of unexpected manner. While they passing their time in prison, Palamon caught a glimpse of Emily through narrow window and everything started at that time. His heart was beating in a abnormally way. It was nearly going to outside. Palamon fell in a big, exalted sublime love. Everything was so unsenseless  that he did not see anything except Emily. Life stopped for a while. he was focusing his loving not someone or something else. He made his love bigger. Day by day, he thought only Emily, In the same time,  Arcite, his cousen, loved the same woman. To remin alive meant that seeing Emily. Even if they did not talk even a word with Emily, they dedicated their life to Emily. Arcite  and Palamon fought against each other for her. Arcite and Palamon made plenty of professions in order to won to Emily.

     Thirdly, when we compare past to present, mean of love and lover are changing with  every a new day. It is losing its signficance because there is no loyalty, there is no dependence, there is no long period of time. Because of that reasons, it is not to be mystery today. When we turn back love of  Emily – Arcite, Emily- Palamon, Arcite was freed before Palamon but his loving did not allow to go another country he decided to stay there and he did not take such a big risk not to seeing again. To see Emily , he worked as a gardener , a worker, and a helper assistant, His passion was so serious that he thought killing cousen but in the end of the story, Arcite died and Palamon won the race. Emily was happy with Palamon.

  To sum up; Love is what someone is happy ,the other is sad,  What is the loving? Loving is making silly behaviours.  Love is bewildered when you see he or she. While look at the legends, we say clearly that loving is get water from a flint. In other saying; loving is achieve the impossible.