TWO MEN AND ONE WOMAN

      Firstly, I should say that loving is difficult. It gives so much happiness, sadness, pain, energy to someone who falls in love. It is so great and huge manner that everybody doesn’t struggle with it. Loving is devoted to yourself to someone who steals your heart. From past to present, almost all people to be with loving and lover. This is so usual situation but in the past it was a bit different from it’s today version. It was generally impossible in the past. When someone fell in love, it gave unimagianable pain to lovers. When we look our background, we can see that there are so many legends about lovers and loving. For example; Ferhat And Şirin, Kerem with Aslı, Romeo And Juliet so on. These are legends because one of them was loved much more but he or she did not find same reaction and the end of the legend they were not happy except some exceptions.

     Secondly, when we focus on the Arcite- Emily, Palamon- Emily, we see same situation unfortunately. While one of them was happy , the other person was sad. This is reality of life. This is tragic but true. Their loving started in a prison. They were cousen and punished because of unexpected manner. While they passing their time in prison, Palamon caught a glimpse of Emily through narrow window and everything started at that time. His heart was beating in a abnormally way. It was nearly going to outside. Palamon fell in a big, exalted sublime love. Everything was so unsenseless  that he did not see anything except Emily. Life stopped for a while. he was focusing his loving not someone or something else. He made his love bigger. Day by day, he thought only Emily, In the same time,  Arcite, his cousen, loved the same woman. To remin alive meant that seeing Emily. Even if they did not talk even a word with Emily, they dedicated their life to Emily. Arcite  and Palamon fought against each other for her. Arcite and Palamon made plenty of professions in order to won to Emily.

     Thirdly, when we compare past to present, mean of love and lover are changing with  every a new day. It is losing its signficance because there is no loyalty, there is no dependence, there is no long period of time. Because of that reasons, it is not to be mystery today. When we turn back love of  Emily – Arcite, Emily- Palamon, Arcite was freed before Palamon but his loving did not allow to go another country he decided to stay there and he did not take such a big risk not to seeing again. To see Emily , he worked as a gardener , a worker, and a helper assistant, His passion was so serious that he thought killing cousen but in the end of the story, Arcite died and Palamon won the race. Emily was happy with Palamon.

  To sum up; Love is what someone is happy ,the other is sad,  What is the loving? Loving is making silly behaviours.  Love is bewildered when you see he or she. While look at the legends, we say clearly that loving is get water from a flint. In other saying; loving is achieve the impossible.